by Pastor Vincent Imwensi
The subject of sex has become so popular these days that there is hardly any where you look without being bombarded with sexual materials, suggestions, symbols, enticements, or matters that are connected with sex in one way or the other.
Maybe it has always been a popular subject but I doubt if sex has ever enjoyed the high and exalted pedestal on which it has now been placed. It has become such a glorified subject especially in the western media.
Sex-based programmes are now common place on national televisions and this is hailed as a good thing especially as many have come to see the need to address the “myths” and uneducated “taboos” surrounding the subject.
Sex is good and it is a blessing
There are some people who think that sex is bad or is dirty and that serious Christians or “good people” should have little or nothing to do with it. But that is wrong. Sex is good and indeed, it is a blessing given to man by God. It all depends on the way it is being used.
It is just like money. Money is a blessing and there is nothing wrong with it. But unfortunately, some people tend to think that money is bad and that if you are a serious Christian, you shouldn’t be talking about money. Till today, the ministers that receive the greatest persecutions (both from Christians and non-Christians) are those who preach on financial prosperity and walk in financial prosperity.
But there is nothing wrong with money and nothing wrong with being rich. It all has to do with the way a person relates with and uses money – because there is a right and wrong way to use and relate with money.
So the subject of sex should not be considered a taboo by Christians, neither should we shy away from knowledge that centres on sex.
Practical Sex Education
Recently, a television programme titled sex education came on national television (Channel 4, in the U.K.). It was directed at teaching the young people sex lessons ‘in a way they will never forget’. It sought to explain all the ‘explainables’ about sex and in fact went the extra mile.
The points made were driven home with naked models (men and women) who stripped in front of the camera during each segment of the programme. Their genitals and other parts of their bodies provided very vivid illustrations as the presenter gave the youths, unforgettable sex lessons.
What was more, there was a doctor on hand to explain all the ‘technical bits’ and provide educated insights into the human anatomy flavoured with her wealth of experience as a medical doctor.
Apart from some practical biology lessons, the heartbeat of the programme seemed to focus on addressing the growing and worrying problems of teenage pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases (especially among the youths) which are said to be largely attributable to sexual ignorance among them.
There was a concern in the presenters of the programme (it seemed) to warn the youths of the consequences of their sexual involvements. It was as if they were on a mission to save many youths the sorrows and anguish of unwanted pregnancies and babies as well as the devastating effects of STDs and STI, (sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections) which is quite a laudable objective.
It’s better to know than to be ignorant
To all intents and purposes this was a good educational programme and I have nothing against it. In fact, I commend the courage and efforts of those who put the programme together bearing in mind what (I supposed) they were out to achieve.
In everything, knowledge is good and profitable especially if well utilised. Someone once said ‘if you think knowledge is costly, try ignorance’. You are better off knowing than being ignorant because the cost of not knowing can wreck unimaginable havoc. In fact, God said in His word, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge”.
So we should not shy away from the acquisition of knowledge including sex education.
However, a one-sided knowledge can be dangerous – sometimes even more dangerous than total ignorance. Therefore on the subject of sex, it is important that a balanced understanding is presented.
What the sex educators did not say
I found quite disturbing the fact that the youths were not told at any point that there was anything wrong with having sex outside the bounds of marriage. What they were taught was If you are going to have sex, make sure you do it safely. That seemed to have sent out all the wrong messages.
The need for them to use condoms was emphasised again and again. In fact, during one of the sections, the youths were given a practical lesson (in a laboratory type of setting) on the right and wrong ways of wearing condoms.
You can’t blame the presenters of the programme though. They were simply reflecting the general attitude or stance of the society on the subject of sex – not just among the youths but at large.
However, there is another side to sex education about which the sex educators said nothing. Maybe they were unaware of this just as many people are.
The greatest danger is a hidden one
The dangers associated with unmarried sex are way beyond unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. In fact, there is a danger that outweighs these two put together.
If the government, the society and well-meaning individuals can be worried enough to want to educate and warn people about the dangers surrounding unprotected sex, shouldn’t these same be rather concerned about gravest danger of all?
What is this danger? you may ask. It is the danger of facing God’s eternal judgment on sexual immorality which includes sexual sins of all kinds.
According to God’s word (the Bible), sex should only be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage. But these days, that is considered outdated, irrelevant and unthinkable.
God tells us in His word that sex outside of wedlock is a sin (or a punishable offence) before Him. And the judgment He has prepared for it is severe.
For instance look at Rev.21:8 – “But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”
If unwanted pregnancy results from sexual encounter, it may cause some embarrassments and inconveniences as well as ruffle a few feathers here and there – but people do get over it.
If an STD is contacted through sex, the worst that can happen is that the individual dies (e.g. – as in the case of HIV or AIDS).
But God’s righteous judgment on sin (including sex outside of marriage) is forever. A dead sinner will wake up at the other side of reality to face God’s eternal judgment.
What if I don’t believe the Bible?
Well, you may say that you do not believe the bible but that does not diminish the truth of what is clearly written therein.
Truth is never devalued or rendered ineffective by neglect, denial or rejection. It will still prove true – except if it was never the truth in the first place. And God’s word is truth whether or not anyone chooses to believe or reject it.
As you read this, even at this very moment, there are many who are on their death beds – dying of AIDS. They were warned of the dangers of their lifestyle and their susceptibility to STDs including AIDS. But they did not believe it until they found themselves at the receiving end of what they thought was not true or would never happen to them.
So also, those who refuse to heed the warning of God’s word concerning the danger of sex outside of marriage, are exposing themselves to a very grave danger indeed.
We ought to let people know
People need to be educated concerning this danger. I am aware that many people don’t want to hear what the Bible has to say on such issues – especially on the “sacred” subject of sex. More often than not, they would mock, criticize and even persecute a born again Christian for raising this sort of awareness.
But if a medical doctor, a tv-presenter and some other well meaning individuals, have enough humanity in them to educate and warn their fellow humans on the dangers they know are real, what of the born again Christian? Shouldn’t we warn people concerning the danger we know to be true?
It is amazing that whereas the doctors and other informed individuals are not afraid to warn people concerning the dangers of certain lifestyles, many believers are more concerned these days about not offending people than telling them the truth they know.
A truly born again Christian knows that God’s word is true and that the warnings in the bible are real. The very life in the believer and the spiritual realities in which he lives are based on the truth of God’s word.
Should a believer then be silent for fear of not wanting to offend people while they blindly expose themselves to this impending danger? Should we not educate people so they can be saved from this danger?
Sexual sin is not the only sin but ….
Of course I am aware that sexual sin is not the only sin there is and that God’s judgement is not going to be limited to this sin alone.
Nevertheless, seeing that sexual perversion has now come to be seen as fun and sexual promiscuity has been granted such a “celebrity status” in our day and time, it is important to educate or remind anyone that will listen, of what they are playing with. Sex outside of marriage portends a serious and eternal danger to which most people are oblivious.
Indeed, this seems to be a sin with an asterisk too. I do not think that hell has any greater dragnet with which it ensnares souls these days than sex-based sins. No wonder it is being given such publicity and hype.
In fact, only eternity will reveal how many multitudes of souls missed their way forever through sexual deceptions.
The way out
There is only one solution to sexual sin (as well as every other sin) – and that is to believe the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ, repent and ask Him to save your soul.
When you turn to Him in simple faith, He will receive you and forgive all your sins irrespective of how deep you have been in sin. Furthermore, He will give you the power to live a God-pleasing life and walk in victory over sexual sin and other sins.
Why not turn to Him right now and get saved (if you have not already done so)? To find out more,
click here.
I’ve already bookmark this short article and can definitely refer this short article to all my close friends and colleagues. Thank you for posting!
Glad you found this post helpful.
Hey! My friend has advised me to read your resource. And I’d like to say that I really appreciate what you’re posting here.
Thanks a lot. Keep checking back – more interesting stuff will continue to be added.
I simply want to tell you that I’m newbie to blogging and truly loved you’re web site. Most likely I’m want to bookmark your blog post . You certainly come with really good article content. Thanks for sharing your website.
Startlingly! It is like it’s clear my mind! Material understand such an abundance of over it, like everyone has written the hem ebook with them something like that. I do think you can do by images drive an automobile this great article your home slightly, still generated for itself ., this can be interesting post. An excellent learn. I’ll without a doubt revisit once more.
Kewl you soluhd come up with that. Excellent!
Check that off the list of tnhigs I was confused about.
Spot on within this write-up, I really anticipate neutral wishes for significantly more attention. I’ll probably be just as before to discover more, appreciate you the fact that material.
This is very interesting, You are an excessively professional blogger. I’ve joined your rss feed and stay up for in quest of more of your fantastic post. Additionally, I’ve shared your website in my social networks!
thanks for share!
could you explain it more?
Hi, thanks for your comments.
If you need more explanation, email me with whatever questions you may have or the areas in which you need further clarifications and i will be happy to respond with as much information as I can.Use this email address: pastorvin@livingwordlive.net
regards,
looks awesome, thanks for the post.
i visited your post. this is really interesting to read on this. thanks for sharing this post. i appreciate your thought.http://www.imobiliariasdeimoveis.com
very well.
thank you for bringing me the information i needed to know.
i would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writing this article. thanks for your blog, big help.http://www.listasegmentada.com
Valuable info. Lucky me I found your site by chance, and I am stunned why this accident did not came about in advance! I bookmarked it.
Hello there, I discovered your web site by the use of Google whilst searching for a related subject, your site came up, it seems to be great. I’ve added to favourites|added to bookmarks.
You are actually a good webmaster. The website loading pace is incredible. It sort of feels that you’re doing any distinctive trick. Moreover, The contents are masterwork. you’ve performed a excellent task in this topic!
This is very fascinating, You’re a very professional blogger. I have joined your feed and look ahead to in quest of more of your fantastic post. Also, I have shared your website in my social networks
It’s a shame you don’t have a donate button! I’d most certainly donate to this outstanding blog! I suppose for now i’ll settle for bookmarking and adding your RSS feed to my Google account. I look forward to fresh updates and will share this site with my Facebook group. Talk soon!
Oh yes, there is certainly a “Donate” button located on the right hand panel of my blog page. Just click on it and you can make any donation you’d love to. Thanks in advance.
I am very impressed by the level of knowledge expressed in this content. Your efforts are impressive and I respect all your hard work. Hopefully, you will continue to put out great work like this.
Fantastically fantastic bless you, It is my belief your trusty followers may well want more information similar to this keep up the wonderful effort.
Really neat site posting.Seriously searching forward to read through extra. Great.
Incredibly insightful publish.Seriously thanks! Definitely Excellent.
Simply desire to say your article is as surprising. The clarity in your post is simply nice and i could assume you’re an expert on this subject. Well with your permission allow me to grab your RSS feed to keep updated with forthcoming post. Thanks a million and please continue the rewarding work.
Thank you for your blog. Great.
I really enjoy the article. Awesome.
Hello.This post was extremely fascinating, particularly since I was investigating for thoughts on this issue last couple of days.
Woah! I’m really digging the template/theme of this site. It’s simple, yet effective. A lot of times it’s challenging to get that “perfect balance” between user friendliness and visual appeal. I must say you have done a fantastic job with this. Also, the blog loads super fast for me on Firefox. Superb Blog!
Hello! This is my first visit to your blog! We are a team of volunteers and starting a new project in a community in the same niche. Your blog provided us beneficial information to work on. You have done a outstanding job!
Hello! Do you know if they make any plugins to assist with Search Engine Optimization? I’m trying to get my blog to rank for some targeted keywords but I’m not seeing very good results. If you know of any please share. Thanks!
I enjoy the efforts you have put in this, appreciate it for all the great blog posts.
I got what you mean , thankyou for putting up.Woh I am pleased to find this website through google. “Money is the most egalitarian force in society. It confers power on whoever holds it.” by Roger Starr.
I think other site proprietors should take this website as an model – very clean and fantastic style and design, not to mention the content. You’re an expert in this topic!
Thank you for the sensible critique. Me & my neighbor were just preparing to do some research on this.
I just couldn’t depart from your website before saying that I really enjoyed the standard information provided for your visitors. I am going to be again ceaselessly investigate and cross-check new posts
Hello are using WordPress for your site platform? I’m new to the blog world but I’m trying to get started and set up my own. Do you require any html coding expertise to make your own blog? Any help would be greatly appreciated!
A lot of thanks for your entire hard work on this site. My mother take interest in engaging in internet research and it’s easy to see why. A number of us know all of the lively means you provide good tips by means of this blog and encourage response from people about this concern so our princess is certainly studying a great deal. Enjoy the rest of the year. Your doing a powerful job.
I have been exploring for a little for any high-quality articles or weblog posts on this kind of house. Exploring in Yahoo I finally stumbled upon this website. Studying this info, I’m satisfied to express that I have a very excellent uncanny feeling I discovered just what I needed. I most indubitably will make certain not to disregard this website and give it a glance regularly.
Yes, I am using WordPress platform for this blog site. You do not require any coding knowledge to run a decent blog. However, having such knowledge will always prove an advantage at some point. But if you don’t have any HTML coding knowledge, don’t let that discourage you.
Hi, I have not investigated the use of plugins for search engine optimization – so I have no information on that. But I think what you need for that purpose will be to advertise your blog for which there are so many choices.
Wonderful site. Plenty of helpful info here. I am sending it to a few pals ans additionally sharing in delicious. And certainly, thank you for your effort!
Whats Happening i’m new to this, I stumbled upon this I have discovered It absolutely useful and it has helped me out loads. I hope to contribute & help other users like its aided me. Good job.
Thanks, comment appreciated.
It always disturbs me that most don’t appear to hold this view. Good work on the blog and I will be sure to spread this entry.
I am really enjoying the theme/design of your web site. Do you ever run into any browser compatibility problems? A handful of my blog visitors have complained about my site not working correctly in Explorer but looks great in Firefox. Do you have any solutions to help fix this problem?